I always read strap on guides that just explain the different types of harnesses but don’t actually tell you what you should buy. I figured that I’ve shared so many stories in the past and even offered up a few cool links, and did a review or two, but I’ve never really suggested good strap ons to people. It did come via email one day, someone asked if I knew anything about strap on’s and of course I was like “I’m your girl” so then I answered the question. There were a few other specifics in there too, so I will basically sum up what I instructed my loyal reader and offer the interested party a few good strap on tips, well actually I think I should re-phrase it as a batter strap on guide since I followed with some suggestions.
I’m not trying to make some sales pitch, I am writing for educational purposes only. I am simply suggesting people to shop from my favorite, TheAdultToyShop.com, they are simply nice people and I think if there’s anyone out there to support, it’s the little family business. Same reason I get my fruits and vegetable from the farmer’s market, I even tell all my friends where to go for their fruits and veggies.
Supporting the little guy over the big corporate conglomerate is always better for the local economy anyway plus it’s nice to see the little family business succeed. It’s like the foundation of American economy, I think anyway, I’m no history buff, I’m a sex toy buff. Specifically, I have a keen desire for strap ons for without further a due, here is the information you’ve been waiting for all along:
Realistic Dildo Harness:
Not always the typical but a good one to have – it’s easier to make your own then it is to purchase a pre-made realistic harness in my opinion. This one is really good, it’s newer I think or I would have purchased it years and years ago. It’s basically the Nasswalk curved dildo on a really good harness. I truly love the hip supporting strap in the back, even though nylon straps are good and sturdy, the supportive backbrace is much better for frequent use. It’s amazing how quick strap on harness straps can leave marked on your skin! I also like making my own by combining any dildo with a suction cup (like this) along with a harness with a metal ring.
The best way do to this is to purchase some curved or torpedo g-spot curved attachment with a harness the buy a realistic dildo separately. Now you instantly have 2 sex toys, the harness is immediately versatile allowing you to enjoy the life like dildo or the skinny non-phallic dildo – as far as non-phallic dildos go anyway.
“Double” refers to double dildos of course but not in the traditional way a person images. It’s not two dildo heads like the true sex toy type, but it’s a dildo for the user and one for the receiver usually in shape of a fat vaginal plug, these offer a really neat feeling. I would try to describe it as an interactive sex feeling, you feel like the vaginal plug is a part of the action. It gets the bring of every forceful thrust, ever retraction. The vaginal plug moves about. I have encountered double harnesses with a full-on dildo for the wearer but it’s not my favorite. I really like a flat stout feel it’s much more erotic and the harness seems to fit better on the body.
I suppose a curious party will need to return to biology class and lean about anatomy again to understands why this style is better. This one is a frequented harness for my sexual uses, it vibrates which is a very nice function. Personally vibrations are not a required feature for my use but it’s a nice add on feature. I typically find vibrating harnesses have battery packs so to move about, you always end up crushing the battery pack, pressing it into your hip which wrecks the mood for a few moments while you rub your hip bone – it’s like running into the corner of a wall, it’s very distancing.Back to the sex toy anyway, the double part that inserts is really to die for. The dildos seem kind of weird, they are skinny with big ridges over them and feel very different.
My personal favorite, the only set back on this style is you’ll need to have sex missionary to benefit from the g-spot love. This one is my favorite, don’t think it’s looks stiff, when I got it home and wore it, the purple harness is actually very well made. Quite substantial and heavy duty format, the dildo is solid and has the nicest curve I’ve seen. The dildo detached with snaps so I use it by itself frequently. The only thing I don’t like about the separate g-spot vibrator use is the flat base is not very sexy at all furthermore I find it really tough to hold into while I’m pleasuring myself.
Have sex in doggie style position while wearing a butt plug and you’ll enjoy a truly original feeling, the curve will rub the skin between the plug and the curve almost feeling like they make contact inside the rear vaginal wall. It’s not something that’s going to make a person orgasm, but it feel kind of cool anyway. I’m sure you’ll accidentally feel this as sexual positions are not always accommodating to the g-spot curved strap on dildo harness. Leave for missionary only which for the receiver is perfect, it feels exceptionally great.
Vac U Lock:
Not my personal favorite but I need to mention then since it’s kind of a commonly known sex toy for couples. There are several harnesses available that come already attached with a realistic dildo. You will get a very high quality Doc Jonson dildo attachment wit this system, the only downside is the price is quite high. You can always make your own kit by purchasing the attachment with a harness on it’s own. I don’t need to suggest an individual one becuase they’re everywhere and it depends on your choice – se the person can be picky becuase of the innumerable styles, shapes and sizes you can choose from. A quick search for the vac U Lock will turn up so many choices, it literally can become confusing!
Kind of a fetish thing, these harnesses are much longer then another, sort of like letting your lover ram a really long dildo into you, except their wearing it. Going back to biology again, maybe it’s best using this near ovulation time otherwise the cervix can feel too hard making far penetrations feel uncomfortable. Alternatively, you can drink half a bottle of red wine which always works really good in my opinion. There is something to be said about getting drunk and having strap on sex. As you can imagine it’s quite the lusty, dirty and naughty fantasy.
If I am going to get drunk for strap on sex, I always go for this one. I know it’s hollow and typically made for men, but the harness itself is solid. I am not a fan of elastic bands on a harness but in this case, this extra wide band really works ell. It’s ideal for skinnier people to and actually looks kind of sexy. I don’t care it’s hollow, a man can insert his dick in the hole or just leave it hang below, if you notice the picture has 2 straps that come under the thighs but they are not connected together under the body making it easy for men to have room for their testicle, balls scrotum and whatever else needs to hang below.
This example above vertebrates too I know I complained earlier about the battery pack and I have encountered this )hence by detailed story above talking about the plastic case feeling like you walked inot a wall and hit the hipbone) but there is a hanger on the back of the case which lets you clip it over the band. Being thick and well clinging to the skin, the pack won’t fall off during sex.
Alright I’ve feel like I’ve been writing all day at this point. I am out of ideas so I will target one of my favorite strap on dildos: this one which looks and feels just as good as it looks. A very nice attachment a total torpedo that surprisingly works best for anal sex and not vaginal sex. I’ve loved this style of many, many years and ever bought i locally before I had a computer with internet – that’s how old this style is! I’m really happy to see it’s still around and for sale. Does not look like it changed a bit either, keeping the timeless shape and perfect use for 15 years or so. The smooth oozing surface is a real delight to the true sense of the word. Now I’m grasping at straws here.
I can use the dildo by itself but honestly, it’s kind of short and best used for anal play. It looks wildly erotic too, I have done a photo shoot wearing this harness and it looks really hot. Sorry I cannot upload a picture of me wearing it becuase I don’t want family members or co-workers knowing this is MY website, I prefer to remain anonymous, just believe me when I say it looks AND feels great, one of my favorite sex toys ever.